My mom is someone who does everything by herself. She runs a nursery out of her home, and raised 4 kids (my siblings and I) in the same home. She cleans the entire house herself and makes food for her family and the kids in her nursery.
Growing up with my mom, I felt so guilty for not having the “Energizer Bunny” energy to work and cook and clean all day.
In recent years, I learned that since I live in *society*, I can have other people do tasks for me so I can focus on my work.
I realized that I’m not built like my mom and use my energy differently.
And that there’s no moral superiority to doing everything yourself if it makes you miserable.
Are you a DIY-er or do you outsource tasks that make you miserable?
If you are miserable and still doing things yourself, why?